Entry 6-Communication

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Dear Da, I think I might start getting on in the afternoon. Things are more tamer this way for me that way. Nothing wrong with a few hours off the web right?

Anyways Today was actually better than others. But I've had a mishaps communicating with others. A small debate about the threshold of pain for when 120dc could result in damaging to ears to sound leading up to a fatality. I mean I knew what I was talking about I just didn't break out the research to back it up. The person I spoke did. Meh I wasn't pissed about that.

But what did get today was when I was talking with my number 1 best friend red-shepherds in a chatroom. She wanted talk about somethings. After that heart to heart discussion when then got in the general discussion and geekiness of anime. Along the conversation we speak about the years and how anime evolved pretty much. Even the animes we should get to watch and read and so on. Chrono the ask's me why haven't I continued reading TOG (Tower of God.) I said "It's not really my taste." 

That seemed to set her off. I was trying to tell her that I'll stick to anime she recently recommended but that was no good to her. I've come the conclusion that TOG is her version of Bleach pretty much. (Bleach is my all time favorite anime.) She then goes into a fit about me thinking that anime that has alot of action and fighting is a anime I'll automatically watch. :grump: That's a little offensive. She then gets mad at me for also not liking one piece as well. (Geez I didn't know it was such a crime to not like a 15-20 yr old anime that just won't end already with a shit load of goofiness.)

Basically she got hungover the fact that I didn't much like TOG, yelled at me a bit and left. Now I'm confused as fuck trying to figure out what I said. She thought by me not liking the anime I was insult the characters in it. "???" That makes no sense. So by me not liking this anime I automatically find the characters in it repulsive? What the hell? Not to mention she kinda blew the situation out of proportion. It's just anime. I don't get why she can't accept that we have different tastes in anime. I mean we have diff. taste in music and food and I don't see her losing her cool over that.

This is what she saw or must have processed the situation as. "TOG? Ewwwww I refuse to read, watch or so much even glance at the anime!! Fuck that shit!!" When all I said was this. "I just don't care for tower of god." I swear the brain works in a strange way. I have nothing against the anime it's just not really one I care for. Not getting on my friend or anyone in the future. I'm just saying communication and understanding goes a long way.

I already know theres gonna be future conversation where shit like this is gonna happen in the future. The moral of this is this. Try to think before you speak and make cold assumptions about another person's imput or opinion. Or just agree to disagree and lie to keep the person at bay. (Don't actually lie, it catches up with you in the long run.) That is all for tonight and Goodnight everyone!
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Also *they, *them, *their. Are you even trying man?